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Why Being a Housewife Doesn't Mean I'm Less of an Individual

Chantal Gaillardetz

When people hear that I'm a housewife, I sometimes sense a shift in how they see me, as if I'm somehow “less” in some way—less ambitious, less independent, or less capable. The role of a housewife is often seen through a restricted viewpoint, with society sometimes measuring a person's worth by their career, public image, or external accomplishments. However, choosing this path has shown me that being a housewife doesn’t lessen my individuality; it allows it to shine even brighter. My Ambitions May Look Different, But They’re Just as Real

Choosing to stay home doesn't mean I lack ambition. I have dreams, goals, and passions—just like anyone else. My ambition is about creating a home where my husband and I can thrive, a place that’s filled with warmth, laughter, and love. I’m always looking for ways to better myself, to be a better wife, and to find joy in the little things. I also chase my dreams, like my passion for blogging, and I’m actively building that dream now. These are the goals that motivate me, and they are just as valid as any career milestone. My Worth Is Not Defined by a Job Title

I’ve come to learn that my worth isn’t tied to what I do for a living. It’s defined by how I live, how I love, and how I show up in the roles I take on. Being a housewife allows me to invest deeply in the things that matter most—my marriage, my home, and my own personal growth. It’s easy to get caught up in society’s expectations, but I’ve learned that my value comes from the love and care I give, not from a paycheck or a title. Living Authentically

I truly love being a housewife. There is so much joy in creating a warm, welcoming home and knowing that the work I do here is meaningful. Every day, I get to prepare a clean house for my husband, where he can come home to a peaceful environment and a home-cooked meal. My role as a housewife is not only an expression of my love for my husband, but also a reflection of the person I’ve become.

Being a housewife doesn’t diminish my individuality—it allows me to embrace it fully. I’m living my truth, creating a life that reflects who I am, and doing what I love. Above all, I love my husband deeply, and it’s that love that makes everything I do here feel so incredibly meaningful and fulfilling.



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Katherine Stano
Katherine Stano
Feb 05

We all have different, unique stories and this a good reminder that they all matter and that it's more important than ever to lift each other up as women. Thank you for your lovely perspective!

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Chantal Gaillardetz
Chantal Gaillardetz
Feb 06
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Thank you so much for your kind words! We all have such unique stories to share, and lifting each other up is key. I’m grateful for your thoughtful comment!

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Andrea | MomLifePlans
Feb 05
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I wholeheartedly agree with everything you say in this post, which is so beautifully written! Thank you so much for sharing 😊

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Chantal Gaillardetz
Chantal Gaillardetz
Feb 05
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That means so much to me! Thank you for your kind words and for taking the time to read my post. I truly appreciate it! 💛

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Kristine
Jan 10

So true! For centuries women have been treated this way. Even if they are working! It’s up to us to change this and it is changing…

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Chantal Gaillardetz
Chantal Gaillardetz
Jan 10
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I couldn’t agree more! It’s up to us women to change this.

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Shelby
Jan 09
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I totally agree! I was an engineer for about 8 years before I decided to quit and stay home with our son. People always ask where I work and when I tell them I don’t I usually get a strange look, and they usually ask when I’m going to go back to work. But I love staying home so much! I get to be home for story hours and nap times, I have time for hobbies and personal aspirations, and life isn’t such a grind anymore. I’ve noticed positive benefits in my physical and mental health too. I have absolutely zero regrets!

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Chantal Gaillardetz
Chantal Gaillardetz
Jan 09
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Awe, I can relate. I get strange looks as well. But I’m glad you love staying home! It makes a huge difference and it’s true that we get more time for our hobbies and personal aspirations. I also agree about the positive benefits. I have no regrets and I love being home.❤️

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Elisa
Jan 06

Couldn't agree more with this post!

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Chantal Gaillardetz
Chantal Gaillardetz
Jan 06
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So glad this post resonated with you!

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