My Ins and Outs for 2025

With 2025 just around the corner, I’ve been spending time reflecting on what I want to carry into the new year and what I’m ready to leave behind. 2024 was an amazing year. I got married, created a lot of memories, and made a new friend.

Now, as I sip my coffee and dream about the year ahead, I feel hopeful and ready. Here's a personal look at my ins and outs for the new year.

My Ins for 2025

Turning Dreams into Reality

I’m going all in on my dreams of being a full-time blogger and writing eBooks. Writing has always been my way of expressing myself, and now it’s time to turn that passion into something bigger. I want to inspire others, bring joy, and maybe even make a difference. The thought of doing what I love every day feels so exciting, and I’m ready to make it happen.

Supporting My Husband

My husband is at the core of everything I do. I’m dedicated to supporting his dreams and the beautiful life we’re building together. I express my love and appreciation for him every day, whether it's cooking his favourite meal or cherishing special moments we share. I’ll continue to be his biggest cheerleader, standing by him through every challenge and triumph.

Staying Connected with Family

I want to stay connected with my family, even if we’re far apart. Whether it’s through phone calls, messages, or video chats, I want to make more time to check in, and share updates.

 Growing My New Friendship

In 2024, I made a new friend—a connection I never expected, but one that has already brought so much light into my life. I’m excited to continue growing this friendship and to see how it strengthens, creating new memories together along the way.

Self-Compassion

I’m choosing to be gentler with myself. I’m learning to let go of the pressure to achieve everything all at once. I’ll celebrate the small wins and remind myself that progress is just as important as the destination.

Stop People-Pleasing

I’m making it a priority to stop people-pleasing. I’ve always been someone who wants to make everyone happy, but I’ve realized that it’s impossible to meet everyone’s expectations all the time. I’m focusing on setting healthier boundaries and learning that it’s okay to say no. By letting go of the pressure to please others, I’ll be able to invest more time and energy into the things that truly matter to me—like taking care of my husband, working on my dreams, and my well-being.

My Outs for 2025

Letting Go of Self-Doubt

Self-doubt has been a constant companion, but it’s time to part ways. To make my dreams a reality, I need to trust in my abilities. I’m choosing confidence over fear and reminding myself that I am capable.

Leaving Behind the Fear of Failure

The fear of failure has held me back for too long. I’ve come to understand that failure is part of growth. Every misstep is a chance to learn and move closer to my goals. In the new year, I’m embracing the lessons that come with challenges instead of letting fear stop me.

Guilt for Saying No

For far too long, I’ve struggled with saying no and carrying the weight of others’ expectations. I’ve spent too much time overthinking and feeling bad about saying no to others. I’m learning that it’s okay to say no without feeling guilty.

Fear of Judgement

I’ve often held myself back out of fear of what others might think. In 2025, I’m leaving behind the fear of judgement and embracing the freedom to be myself without worrying about others’ opinions.

Chantal Gaillardetz